by Jane St Clair
The Day of the Dead — or Dia de Muertos, as they call it in Tucson– comes immediately after Halloween, but it’s actually much spookier. Every year hundreds of people gather at night for the very very spooky parade.
Skeletons rise out of their graves– and they walk around, looking much the worse for wear. On the Day of the Dead, they eat and play cards …
And some even play in orchestras
While I always like the kiddie party trick-or-treat spirit of Halloween, the grotesque images of the Day of the Dead used to creep me out. I mean… SKELETONS! And GHOSTS!
Then a friend who was born in Mexico but grew up in Arizona in the rich traditions of our neighboring country, took the time to explain Dia de Muertos to me. When someone we love dies, we miss them so much! she said. Our uncles, our aunts, our grandmothers and grandfathers — all of them. We miss them and wish every day they were here.
But on Dia de Muertos, we imagine them back with us again for one more happy day. We have dinner with them! We play cards together! We dance! And we tell jokes!
But mostly, we are so happy to be together one more time. Right before Dia de Muertos, we prepare their favorite foods and pull out their favorite games and sometimes even clothes so that they used to like to wear. This way, they will be sure to come see us. We look forward to Dia de Muertos every single year!
It was the Aha! moment for me. What a cool idea – how accepting and loving to think even though my Great-Aunt Charlotte may be a skeleton now, she is happy where she is. She could stop by to see me from time to time. People honoring those they love! This celebration is so jolly that some people even remember their pets! And of course, no Arizona cowboy never ever forgets his favorite horse on the Day of the Dead or any day, for that matter.
Yo, Aunt Charlotte! Party down one more time! Viva la Dia de Muertos!
For more information about the November 2-3,2013 Parade in Tucson, see 2014 All Souls’ Procession