Rom Houben was only twenty-years old when he was involved in a terrible car crash.Once a handsome, athletic engineering student who loved martial arts, he fell into a coma after his 1983 accident. For the next 23 years, his doctors believed he was in a vegetative state, although his mother knew better.
In 2006, one of his doctors went out on a limb and decided to use a new technology to scan Rom Houben’s brain. This was an unusual thing to do.Rom Houben was what’s known as “back ward case” — someone who gets very little attention because there’s no medical way to help him recover.
The new test showed what his family suspected all along – Rom Houben was conscious of everything around him, could hear and understand what everyone was saying to him, but had no way to let other people know that.He literally had tried screaming at his nurses and doctors, but no one understood that he was a thinking person, who needed to communicate and read and take part in life, even though his body had failed him.
Under the new Senate bill, people like Rom Houben have no protection from well-meaning doctors and nurses who wrongly label them vegetables, not human beings.Under the new Senate bill, health care providers paid with government money could withhold food and water from vegetable-people, even though, as Rom Houben clearly teaches us, mistakes happen.
To give the Senators credit, their new bill is not nearly as rough on helpless and terminally ill people as the House bill was.The Senate bill contains specific language against the “promotion” of “assisted suicide” and euthanasia.In the spirit of the season, let’s give thanksgiving. We can be thankful that our representatives listened to the American people’s concerns about end-of-life issues. We can be thankful that under this new bill, the federal government is not going to “promote” euthanasia and mercy killings as health care treatments. So far that is only being done in two states – Oregon and Washington – where people whose medical bills are paid by state governments have been offered cheap “assisted suicides” instead of expensive cancer treatments.
However, the language in the Senate bill needs to be strengthened to protect people like Rom Houben and to make sure that “assisted suicide” does not spread as a medical treatment, especially one that could be offered through government-paid programs like Medicaid, Medicare, and the “government insurance exchanges” as created by the new Senate bill. Promising not to “promote” euthanasia and mercy killings is not the same as being against that. Also, there is nothing in the bill that specifically prohibits discrimination against patients who are elderly, disabled or terminally ill.
By the way, the term “assisted suicide” is a meaningless phrase because suicide is by definition something you do yourself.The accurate term is “medical homicide.”
For example, removing Rom Houben’s food and water tubes would not have been an “assisted suicide” but a medical homicide. If you don’t believe that, you can ask him. He is no longer considered a vegetable and he can communicate now. After 26 years, somebody finally gave him a keyboard.
Within the last five months, four beautiful students from Palo Alto, California (home of StanfordUniversity) killed themselves at a railroad crossing. These precious children were all students at HarveyGunnHigh School. Students there are devastated by this terrible loss. Train crews tell officials that it is hard for them to drive over the spot where the suicides occurred. These are unspeakable tragedies.
Suicide is the third leading cause of death for teenagers, after accidents and homicide. Please, if you are considering suicide, get help right now. Suicide is like junking a car that has a flat tire.You can fix it and things can get better.
129 things to do instead of suicide.
Test-drive a convertible with the top down
Work up your American Idol audition
Go to a music store and play drums
Design your own line of clothing
Do a murder mystery party
Get a psychic reading
Have fake business cards made
Start a collection
Go horseback riding
Go to a tanning salon
Spend the day eating junk food
Play with Legos
Make a lemonade stand for charity
Take a bubble bath
Redo your MySpace or Facebook page
Play miniature golf
Read a book of New Yorker cartoons
Watch wildlife
Phone your grandmother
Paint a wall mural in your room
Send a message in a bottle
Put on prom clothes and eat by candlelight
WATCH A SUNRISE
Lift weights
Have a meal at an airport
Study cows
Make puppets
Go to the mall and try on something you’d never wear
Make a video for YouTube
Work up an impression of your favorite celebrity
Get decals for your car
Take up belly dancing or tango
Do some star gazing
Go through your clothes and donate some to charity
Buy someone roses
Have your portrait made
Watch Steinfeld reruns
Go roller-skating
Dye your hair
Plant a tree
Go to a 12-Step meeting
Make cookies
Learn Sudoku
Take a walk
Buy a puppy
TAKE NATURE PICTURES
Go to a movie
Get a massage
Go to the library
Meditate
Plan a safari
Go skydiving or ballooning
Call a friend who’s in worse shape than you are
Go to the gym and work out in a new way
Write a poem
Rearrange the furniture in your room
Plan your wedding
Get a racquet ball game going
Meet a friend at a restaurant
Visit some place creepy
Attack a household chore
Go to a waterslide park
Write your memoirs
Watch a live theater production
Visit a theme park
Draw a wall-sized picture
Do some yoga
Play Barbies or GI Joe with some little kids
Count your blessings
Draw a picture of your pet
Tour a factory
Rent a limo
Build a time capsule
Buy a new video game
PLAN YOUR TRIP TO EUROPE
Get a scavenger hunt going
Make pancakes
Dance to the video game “Dance Revolution”
Visit a college
Take a ride on public transportation
Go bowling
Read an old yearbook
Visit a nursing home
Go to a thrift store and buy something silly
Watch “The Matrix” or “Cinderella Diaries” again
Play Frisbee
Write a letter to your Congressman
Go rock-climbing
Watch baseball at the park
Ride your bicycle
Charge up a bill on a credit card
Make homemade pasta
Learn how photoshop pictures
Do a water sport like swimming, tubing or canoeing
Fifteen years ago, Colorado’s governor Richard Lamm got himself in trouble by saying elderly people have “a duty to die and get out of the way.”
Lamm knew how much end-of-life care costs. About one-third of Medicare’s budget goes for costs incurred in the last one year of life, and 40% of that goes for expenses in the last one month of life. It is so much cheaper if old people just do their duty and get out of the way rather than use hospitals, expensive tests and surgeries, and medications.
Congress knows this too, which is why they include Section 1233 in the proposed health care reform bill.
Under Section 1233, doctors get paid to sit down with all patients over 65 years old to talk about end-of-life issues. The idea is to encourage people to sign living wills and enter hospices rather than getting expensive treatments. Since hospice provides only pain relief and palliative care, everyone else saves money. Under the new rules, you enter hospice when you have only 18 months to live, compared to today’s six months– so this way you speed things along even faster for us. In states where physician-assisted suicide is legal, end-of-life talks would no doubt include assisted suicide, the cheapest option of all.
The lawmakers pushing cheap “end-of-life” healthcare call it the “complete lives system.” The idea is that old people have already led “complete lives,” so it’s time for them to do their duty, as Lamm put it.
The lawmakers behind these proposals are compassionate. They don’t like that dying people suffer, and they don’t like that a 90-year-old with cancer takes a government Handy Van to chemotherapy, while a baby in Africa dies because he can’t get clean water. In fact, none of us like that, and we all agree something has to be done.
The problem is putting our compassionate ideas into practice. Even very smart compassionate people are not smart enough to make every decision for everyone else. And what happens in practice is that most people want every treatment possible at the end of their lives. Who gets to decide which people get which treatments?
Jane Strum spoke up at a presidential press conference in July 2009. Five years ago, her mother got a pacemaker at age 99 years, and is still alive today. Under the new government plan, Strum asked, would there just be cut-offs at certain ages, or would doctors be able to consider factors likes a “certain spirit? A certain joy of living?” Her mother’s doctors considered those things.
President Obama answered Jane Strum like this.
“We can let doctors know, and we can let your mom know,” he said, “that maybe this is not going to help. Maybe you’re better off not having the surgery, but taking the painkiller.”
In this particular case, however, if you believe she would be better off not having the surgery but taking the painkiller, you believe she would be better off dead.
Let’s look at the particular cases of Randy Stroup and Barbara Wagner, who have cancer. They are sort-of old people: Stroup is 53 years old and Wagner is 64. They both got letters from the state of Oregon, which pays their medical expenses. The letters said that Oregon won’t pay their cancer treatments because each has only a slim chance of living more than five years. However, the good news is that Oregon will pay for a painless, doctor-assisted suicide, defining it as “comfort care,” and including it as just another choice for them, like taking painkillers. They could choose to be humanely put to sleep, the way you’d do for a beloved pet.
What this means is that some of the most caring people among us are willing to reduce each of us to a bunch of numbers, statistics, and risk factors because they think this will make things better for humanity as a whole. It is medicine by accountancy. Accountancy has no philosophy or art in it. It lacks what Wordsworth called “the sweet sad music of humanity.”
The New York Times reports that six Senators are sitting around a table making these decisions. There are no doctors, nurses, nursing home attendants, psychologists, medical ethicists, theologians, priests, rabbis, artists, shamans, and wise elders in their discussions. Congress alone decides who must do the noble thing and die for our country, the same way they make laws deciding who gets the criminal death penalty and who must go to war.
One of the first things they decided was to exempt themselves from healthcare reforms like Section 1322 and vote to keep their own healthcare plan just the way it is, thus avoiding end-of-life chats, issues of “complete lives,” duties to die, and assisted suicide.
Assisted suicide is like the line from the movie, “Young Frankenstein,” when Igor whispers, “Wait, Master, it might be dangerous. You go first.”
Since Congress is proposing this, and since the way is very dangerous, they should go first.
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Thirty Logical Reasons Against Physician-Assisted Suicide first appeared in the November 2008 election cycle as a series of ads in Washington state, where assisted suicide was on the ballot. Over 7,000 people have read this article.
Reason #30- No on Assisted Suicide
Sunday, November 2
Today’s AD-Some terminally ill people recover and get well.
A hospice nurse told me about a lovely 24-year-old given three months to live. Five years later, she is still with us and the mother of a child.
Every good doctor knows that medicine is an art as well as a science. No one can predict with 100% certainty who will live and who will die. Although it is rare, some terminally ill people can and do get better. Everyone who works in hospice can tell you at least one story attesting to that. They personally knew a patient who beat the odds and is still vertical today.
Offer them suicide and you take everything away from them. You take away hope. You take away their lives.
Reason 29: No on Assisted Suicide
Saturday, November 1
Today’s Ad: Doctors make mistakes in medical care.
This week, Mississippi Supreme Court has upheld a $4 million award to the
family of a woman misdiagnosed with cancer and then given a lethal dose
of painkillers.The 66-year-old woman received massive doses of painkillers at a hospice for cancer, which an autopsy showed she never had, according to court
records. See http://www.clarionledger.com/article/20081025/NEWS/810250356/1001/news.
That’s just this week’s news. It happens all the time.
The JOURNAL of the AMERICAN MEDICAL ASSOCIATION (JAMA) Vol 284, No 4, reports that medical errors may be the third leading cause of death in the United States at 225,000 deaths per year. Half are medical mistakes, including 2,000 deaths/year from unnecessary surgery; 7000 deaths/year from medication errors in hospitals; 20,000 deaths/year from other errors in hospitals; and 80,000 deaths/year from infections in hospitals.
Do you want to give doctors the right to administer suicide medications? Hey, mistakes happen.
Reason 28- No on Assisted Suicide
Friday October 31
Today’s AD-Assisted suicide laws give societal approval to suicide.
These laws create a world where everyone agrees it’s okay to check out at certain times. In fact, we’ll help you do it. We’ll make it legal. Society approves. This creates more suicides among people who are not sick, and leads to increased medical killings. It creates incentives to do less medical research and to save money on medical care by offering people poison pills. This is already happening in Oregon.
In the Netherlands, assisted suicide has moved into mercy killings of deformed babies, and into allowing mentally ill people to kill themselves rather than seek treatment. There is no reason to believe the United States would do any better if such laws are passed here.
Reason 27- No on Assisted Suicide
October 30 Thursday
Today’s AD No one, not even incapacitated people, needs assisted suicide.
This is the worst case scenario argument from people who want assisted suicide laws. It goes like this: people who are paralyzed cannot commit suicide themselves. Therefore, they are denied a right. Therefore, we have to pass assisted suicide laws.
First of all, assisted suicide laws are written only for the terminally ill. Someone like Christopher Reeve and Terri Shiavo may have been too incapacitated to commit suicide but they were not terminally ill. Assisted suicide laws have nothing to do with their cases.
The vast majority of people who are terminally ill do not become incapacitated until the very end. They have plenty of time to kill themselves without help. If they ask friends and doctors to help them commit suicide once they become incapacitated, they are often looking for approval of their act or sympathy for their condition. It’s no one’s job to kill another person, and unfair to ask that of doctors and family members.
Reason #26- No on Assisted Suicide
October 29
Today’s AD You already have control over your final illness.
Many people believe that assisted suicide laws are bad for society, but they want them just in case they personally need them. They want control over their dying process. It’s a me-first attitude.
What they do not understand is that they already have control of their dying process. My own grandfather pulled out his feeding tubes and respirator himself, telling his doctor and his son that he was an old man and his time had come.
You already can kill yourself any time you want. You have the right to refuse any medical treatment at any time. You can choose pain relief only. You can tell your hospice nurses and caretakers to keep everyone out of your room, if you want control over who sees you when you are sick. You already have control, and you don’t need assisted suicide.
Reason #25- No on Assisted Suicide
October 28
Today’s AD-We can come up with better ways of helping the dying besides assisted suicide..
A young man was diagnosed with HIV in the Netherlands. Even though his doctors told him he could live many years free of symptoms, he asked for an doctor-assisted suicide. No one talked to this young man and helped him work through his feelings of depression and of being overwhelmed by his own diagnosis. His culture accepts suicide, so that was that, and he ended his life in despair.
In our own country, oncologists routinely walk away from cancer patients they have been treating for months or even years once they are terminal. The person’s death becomes a personal failure on the part of the physician, even though it’s nothing of the kind. The only failure is the doctor’s lack of caring and lack of courage to stay involved. Caring is not always curing, but every bit as important. If you only think in terms of curing and winning battles against illness, you walk away from your “losers” and you walk away from caring.
We can come up with better ways of dealing with death than this, but we never will if we pass assisted suicide laws.
Reason #24- No on Assisted Suicide
October 27
Today’s AD Oregon offers terminally ill people assisted suicide in lieu of medical care.
Oregon and the Netherlands, where assisted suicide is legal, keep expanding it. This passage, written by Dr. Herbert Hendin in Psychiatric Times, sums up what’s happened in the Netherlands:
The Netherlands has moved from assisted suicide to euthanasia, from euthanasia for the terminally ill to euthanasia for the chronically ill, from euthanasia for physical illness to euthanasia for psychological distress and from voluntary euthanasia to involuntary euthanasia (called “termination of the patient without explicit request”).
The Dutch now end the lives of psychiatric patients and deformed babies.
In Oregon, medical systems are already offering people assisted suicide in lieu of chemotherapy. See “Oregon Offers Terminal Patients Assisted Suicide in Lieu of Medical Care,” FOX NEWS, http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,392962,00.html.
Reason #23- No on Assisted Suicide
October 26
Today’s AD Assisted suicide laws give more power to the government, not the individual.
On the surface, it looks like you gain a new “right” when you vote for assisted suicide. Actually, you turn over more power to the government and medical establishment.
You already have the power to commit suicide at any time. But if you sign a paper agreeing to have your doctor do it for you, you are turning over your power to someone else. You are creating a mechanism for the government and medical people to enter into decisions as to who lives and who dies. You are taking away the power of the individual.
Reason #22- No on Assisted Suicide
October 25
Today’s AD-Assisted suicide laws removes incentive to do medical research.
If cancer patients routinely kill themselves rather than undergo treatment, you have removed a reason to perform medical research to cure cancer. Research scientists receive funding based on how much money illnesses are costing insurance companies and how many people suffer from them. If an illness is rare, it gets less funding.
Also, think about the parents of terminally ill children. They will move mountains to cure that child. Rich parents fund research. Average people find breakthroughs themselves, like the parents in Lorenzo’s Oil.
Suicide laws remove such incentives for medical research and human progress.
Reason #21- No on Assisted Suicide
October 24 Big financial interests are often behind assisted suicide laws.
When are you dead? When your brain dies? When your heart stops beating? When you stop breathing? When you are in an irreversible coma? No one really has come up with a working definition of death, so the concept gets abused, especially since death involves money.
The longer we keep sick people alive, the more they cost us. Last illnesses cost more than any other medical category. If we convince you that you have no hope for a future, we save money on your care and make money on your organs. If we convince you to die early, we inherit your money more quickly. The government saves on Social Security. Your company saves pension money.
So. Are you going to let such financial interests promote assisted suicide as a new public policy?
Reason #20- No on Assisted Suicide
October 23
Today’s AD Christopher Reeve considered assisted suicide.
In his autobiography,”Still Me,” Reeve describes the despair he felt after becoming paralyzed in a riding accident. Within seconds, he went from being a handsome, extremely physically fit person to one who could not move from the neck down. He could speak and drink through straws, and that was pretty much it.
He asked his wife to help him commit suicide, and she said, “I understand how you feel, but you’re still you and I love you.” Hence, the title of the book.
What Reeve confesses is that he was testing her to see if she was willing to take over his care.
He went on to live a life of example. Not only did he write an inspiring book, he also acted in and directed several movies and worked tirelessly to get funding for victims of paralysis. He never gave up trying to walk. He became a real superman.
Reason #19- No on Assisted Suicide
October 22
Today’s AD Assisted suicide asks too much of loved ones.
In the movies and on TV shows, the dying person is always in extruciating pain and crying out for help to the only one who will listen: an old friend or spouse or daughter or whatever. The writer presents the scene as totally hopeless unless the loved one helps the dying person commit suicide.
This is, of course, absolute nonsense.
The correct response is, “I can’t do that, but I can stay by you, love you, help you through this, make sure you get pain relief, counseling and help. We can get through this together. Please don’t ask me to hurt someone I care about. I love you.”
Reason #18- No on Assisted Suicide
October 21
Today’s AD-Assisted suicide laws put poor people at risk.
This is the Martin Sheen argument against assisted suicide. He is making radio ads in Washington partly because he believes that assisted suicide laws will put poor people and those without health insurance at an extreme disadvantage within the medical system. Think of the money we’d save on CAT scans, x-rays, medicine, nursing care, rehabilitation, disability payments, etc if we had this cheap alternative: suicide.
Martin Sheen is right.
Reason #17- No on Assisted Suicide
October 20
Today’s AD-Suicide interrupts a natural path to wisdom.
At the very end of human life, everything happens faster and better. When you don’t have much time, you prioritize. People become more authentic when they are dying, which is why courts give so much credence to a person’s “last words.”
Hospice nurses have shared many stories with me about how people come to realize new things about themselves, what was really important to them after all, who loved them and whom they really love, what the meaning of life is and what the afterlife, if any, looks like to them. They may go through a period of regrets, sorrow and mourning before they find wisdom, but it’s there. If you cut off your life too soon, you miss your chance for wisdom.
Reason #16- No on Assisted Suicide
October 19
Today’s AD-The first Nazi victims were terminally ill people.
The Nazi party used very emotional propaganda films about terminally ill people who needed the compassion of assisted suicide. Today we Americans are watching similar movies like Million Dollar Baby, which got the 2004 Academy Award for Best Picture. The most effective Nazi film told the heart-breaking story of a doctor’s wife who begged her husband to kill her.
Once they sold the Germans on assisted suicide and had some doctors on board, the Nazi party moved into the concept of “useless eaters.” Germany was in a terrible depression in the 1930s, worse than America’s. “Useless eaters” were criminally insane, severely handicapped children, very very elderly, etc. Once they eliminated “useless eaters,” the Nazis went on to killing —- well, you’ve got the idea.
For more information, go to article “Hitler, the Nazis and Four Arguments Against Assisted Suicide.”
Reason #15- No on Assisted Suicide
October 18
Today’s AD-Assisted suicide laws cannot be written so as to prevent abuse.
This is the reason the American Medical Association opposes assisted suicide. Doctors know that there is no way to control assisted suicide once you make it legal. There is no foolproof way to write the law without opening it to abuse.In Oregon and the Netherlands, for example, assisted suicide laws require two physicians to “sign off” on a suicide. However, some doctors “sign off” routinely without examining patients. One Dutch doctor hurried up a suicide because he needed the bed for another patient. You can’t write a law that covers every contingency so there’s no way to control what happens to your patients once you open that door.
Reason #14- No on Assisted Suicide
October 17
Today’s AD-Dying people can be treated for depression.
Many people who are terminally ill are not depressed.At the end of her life, my sister became like a poet or artist, sitting outside and just taking in the beauty of everything. She got an enhanced sense of life, everything became so incredibly beautiful to her because it was not going to last very much longer.However, some terminally ill people are depressed and talk about suicide. If they get antidepressant medications, a good psychologist and a caring spiritual counselor, they can recover emotionally. They often find the courage to face the final work of dying: reconciliations, settling of old disputes, telling others how much they have meant to them, and so forth. Suicide is always an act of despair, and it’s not good to leave the planet in despair.
Reason 13- No on Assisted Suicide Today’s AD October 16 -The arguments for assisted suicide are all based on emotion.
Emotion is a kind of thought, but emotions are unreliable. We feel empathy when we see a dying person. Our first impulse is to hurry it along, end his suffering. However, behind that emotion of empathy hides a judgment: that person’s life is not worth living and needs to end now.
We can have a similar emotion when we see someone very very old or in a wheelchair or someone like Terri Shiavo. That life is not worth living. Are you feeling compassion or making a judgment?
Reason #12- No on Assisted Suicide
October 15
Today’s AD- Assisted suicide sets a bad example for other people.
A handsome young man, the father of two young children with a beautiful wife, a brilliant scientist passionate about his life’s work, was dying much much too young. Yet Randy Pausch inspired us all with his incredible “Last Lecture.” He knew he was dying, but he looked back to check on his two young sons, to make sure they and his wife would be all right, and to leave them and all of us all with a little bit of wisdom. When he was toward the end, his doctor said, “Randy, this may be it.”
He answered, “I’ll get back to you on that.”
Those were his last words.
He took control and he did it his way. We are all grateful for his example.
For more information on Randy Pusch, go to http://download.srv.cs.cmu.edu/~pausch/.
Reason #11- No on Assisted Suicide
Today’s AD
October 14 -Insurance companies love assisted suicide.
About 27% of Medicare’s annual $327 billion budget goes to care for patients in their final year of life. That’s a lot of money, and one poison pill is so much cheaper.
You may be young and think that this is a great way to save money in the middle of a health care crisis. The insurance companies believe that too. They like doctors to help people commit suicide. It saves money.
However, what’s going to happen when it’s your turn to die?
Reason #10 Today’s AD October 13 -The American Medical Association opposes assisted suicide.
Here’s the American Medical Association’s statement as it appears on their website:
E-2.211 Physician-Assisted Suicide
Physician-assisted suicide occurs when a physician facilitates a patient’s death by providing the necessary means and/or information to enable the patient to perform the life-ending act (eg, the physician provides sleeping pills and information about the lethal dose, while aware that the patient may commit suicide). It is understandable, though tragic, that some patients in extreme duress–such as those suffering from a terminal, painful, debilitating illness–may come to decide that death is preferable to life.
However, allowing physicians to participate in assisted suicide would cause more harm than good.
Physician-assisted suicide is fundamentally incompatible with the physician’s role as healer, would be difficult or impossible to control, and would pose serious societal risks. Instead of participating in assisted suicide, physicians must aggressively respond to the needs of patients at the end of life. Patients should not be abandoned once it is determined that cure is impossible. Multidisciplinary interventions should be sought including specialty consultation, hospice care, pastoral support, family counseling, and other modalities. Patients near the end of life must continue to receive emotional support, comfort care, adequate pain control, respect for patient autonomy, and good communication.
Reason #9- No on Assisted Suicide Today’s AD October 12 -Allowing assisted suicide will increase teen suicides.
American teens kill themselves at a rate of about one every two hours. About 19% of our teens tell researchers they have experienced depression, and half of those have had suicidal thoughts. Our kids take three times the number of prescription drugs for depression, anxiety and other mental health conditions than do European teens.
By okaying assisted suicide laws, we are telling our teenagers that suicide is okay and necessary sometimes. Given the above data, do you really think that’s a good idea?
News flash: Martin Sheen opposes Pro I-1000 see http://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2008/sep/08093007.html.
Reason #8- No on Assisted Suicide Today’s AD October 11 - You don’t need a doctor to commit suicide.
Assisted suicide gets lumped into abortion issues, but the two are very very different. You don’t need a doctor to commit suicide. There are many ways to do it, and it’s not my place to show you how (even though I am a crime writer and know a lot about painless quick poisons and such).
Suicide is an intensely private act. You don’t need to involve anyone else, and society is better off not approving of it.
Reason #7- No on Assisted Suicide Today’s AD October 10 - Skilled hospice caregivers can control physical pain.
Some people are more afraid of physical pain than of actually dying.
There is no need for that fear because of modern pain control methods. I watched my parents and sister die from cancers that had spread through their bodies, and they did not feel pain, even in their last days. Morphine and other drugs did the trick, and they were not even that sedated.
One reason hospice nurses can control pain is that they don’t have to worry about addiction and can use higher levels of medications. They know how to look for and take care of blockages and other problems. Please do not be afraid of pain.
Today’s Ad
Reason #6- No on Assisted Suicide October 9 - The American Nurses Association is against assisted suicide.
Official Position: “The American Nurses Association (ANA) believes that the nurse should not participate in assisted suicide. Such an act is in violation of the Code for Nurses with Interpretive Statements (Code for Nurses) and the ethical traditions of the profession. Nurses, individually and collectively, have an obligation to provide comprehensive and compassionate end-of-life care which includes the promotion of comfort and the relief of pain, and at times, foregoing life-sustaining treatments.”
Today’s Ad #5- No on Assisted Suicide October 8 -All humans have dignity, even the sick and dying.
One old man was taking care of his wife who had Alzheimer’s disease. His friends said, “Why do you put so much into her care? Can’t you see what she has become?” The old man answers, “Maybe, but I remember who she was.”
No matter where you are in your life, you are still human and you have the dignity of being human. Babies are helpless but they have human dignity. People with terrible handicaps, scars, amputations, mental illness — they still have human dignity. No one and no sickness can take your human dignity away from you. You are still someone’s spouse, someone’s parent, someone’s child, someone’s loved one. No matter what happens to you, you are still you. No one can take that from you, no matter what.
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Reason #4- No on Assisted Suicide
October 7 - Suicidal people have a diminished capacity to make the decision to end their lives.
If you tell a psychologist that you are suicidal, he or she has the power to put you in a hospital because you are a danger to yourself. Legally, you have diminished capacity and are unable to make important and rational decisions.
If you say a dying person has a good enough reason to kill his/herself, why not a person in a wheelchair? Someone whose family was killed in an accident? Someone who faces financial ruin? Suicidal people need treatment for depression, not help committing suicide.
Today’s AD
#3- No on Assisted Suicide
October 6 – Assisted suicide puts pressure on dying people to end their lives
One hospice nurse told me that he has seen families fight over estates and money even as their relative lay dying. The attitude was: Please get this over so we can get our inheritance.
Likewise, in the Terri Schiavo case, her ex-husband stood to gain money and freedom to remarry once she died.
On the other hand, it is very hard for most people to stay near someone they love who is dying. If you want to get your pet’s life over, multiple that by thousands when it’s a person you love. You really want it over, but that’s making it about you. The loving attitude is “I want every possible moment with you. Take your time.”
October 5, 2008 Today’s Ad
Reason 2 -Assisted suicide makes doctors accessories of fact to homicide.
“Accessories before the fact” is a legal term. Let’s say you buy someone a gun, knowing that he plans to kill someone with it. You are an accessory before the fact of homicide and could go to jail for doing that. Similarly, when a doctor provides a dying person with poisons, knowing that the person is going to kill himself, he is an accessory before the fact.
Assisted suicide laws are written so as that all doctors get off the hook for helping murder someone. It becomes a legal parsing of morality. Isn’t that what we hate about lawyers?
October 4, 2008 Reason 1 Assisted suicide creates a world without love.
When we think of people who showed great love and compassion — the Good Samaritans and Mother Teresas of the world –we think of how they stopped and they took the time to help others.
When they saw suffering, they didn’t shoot the person to put him out of his misery. That only creates a world without love.
Do you want your kids to grow up in a world like that? When people are so sad they want to die, they need love and understanding.
People who argue in favor of assisted suicide and euthanasia often say they and others should not live if they are a burden and require help in feeding and self-care. They say that such a life lacks dignity and autonomy.They say handicapped people are a drain on the health care system.
At this month’s International Symposium on Euthanasia and Assisted Suicide in Washington, DC, many speakers were handicapped or else they were people with profoundly disabled family members, including the brother of Terri Schiavo.
I copied 17 provocative quotes from their speeches here.
Bobby Schlinder, director of the Terri Schiavo Foundation:
Rolling Stone published an article about Terri=s Avegetable life … her dead fish eyes … and her doped up smile …@ This was my sister they were talking about.It was just one example of the media=s profound prejudice and bigotry against handicapped people, and their slander and defamation of my sister.
My sister was never dying or on life support. We took her everywhere in her wheelchair. The media distorted her condition.
The diagnosis Apersistent vegetative state@ dehumanizes people.It is a subjective diagnosis. My sister was not a diagnosis.She was a human being with a profound brain injury.
The number one question that I am asked all the time is AWho would want to live like your sister?@That question is used to leap frog into killing people.But the question was never about Terri.It was always about us and about how we are going to treat our most vulnerable.
Diane Coleman, founder, the Not Dead Yet organization
Every time read I the phrase “burden of care” I feel a threat.
We are sometimes asked, “Who are you - the disabled – to take away our rights to euthanasia?”However, the reasons for euthanasia are disability-related – things like loss of autonomy, loss of dignity.We don’t believe in that.We do not believe those are reasons for physician-assisted suicide.
We’re not dead yet and we will fight back.
Randy Richardson, father of Lauren
I want to say that my word “compassion” is not followed by the word “choices.” My word compassion means someone with a heart taking care of someone else.
When we told Lauren, “Lauren, we’re going to take you home,” she cried. Lauren is not a vegetable. Carrots can’t cry.
Lionel Roosemont, father of Tikvah
I thought they would do everything possible to help my child.Instead, they told us that we should have an abortion as soon as possible. They told us she would be born blind, deaf, paralyzed and helpless.When she was born, she was not blind, she was not deaf, and she was not paralyzed. Her APGAR scores were nine and ten.
The newest developments in Belgium society are that newborn babies are being killed and pharmacists are selling “euthanasia kits.”
Please publish the Belgium story to put them under pressure.Stand up for your country and for Belgium.You don’t have to be afraid.
Stephan Drake, Not Dead Yet organization
When I was born, the doctors put the odds at 100 to one that I would survive the night.They worried that I might survive and I did. I am living against medical advice.
The restriction of physician-assisted suicide to just the terminally ill should not be regarded as permanent.We know their strategy.They have laid it out for us.
Alison Davis, No Less Human
Once I accidentally went into the wrong room where proponents of assisted suicide were working.Everyone assumed I was pro-euthanasia because I am in a wheelchair.
The other side thinks we disabled people are clamoring for such laws.Most of us are terrified of these people and we are afraid of euthanasia becoming law.
About twenty years ago, I just wanted to die and this feeling lasted for years. Once I took a large dose of pills, slashed my wrists, and then I drank an entire bottle of martini.A friend took me to the Emergency Room where I was treated against my will.If suicide had been legal then, I would have satisfied all the criteria. It took me years to decide that my life was worth living.I have not thought about suicide since.I had no idea of the good times that were ahead of me.
I have experienced much pain in my life.When my pain is bad, I do not need to be told that I am burdensome.I need to hear that my life has meaning.The feeling that I may be abandoned is worse than any pain.
Welcome to Jane St. Clair’s website -Author of Walk Me to Midnight - articles against assisted suicide - songs and stunning photographs of Arizona.
Walk Me to Midnight is a fast-paced suspense murder mystery that critics have call “taut, penetrating, and impossible to put down - a novel that will keep you reading all night long until you get to its horrifying conclusion.” Yet it’s a serious book guaranteed to make you think –some scenes from this book were included in a scholarly journal about contemporary fiction.
This novel defies classification - published by a Christian book company, it has been banned in some Christian bookstores. The tone of Walk Me to Midnight is more spiritual than religious.
For more information about Walk Me to Midnight and to read an excerpt from Chapter One, see Walk Me to Midnight.
I have always loved the way the ocean is ever-changing and moving so that it hypnotizes and yet at the same time relaxes your mind. To me, she has light feet and dances the samba. But now I live in the mountains, and they are more sober than friend-ocean. They play great thunder music – symphony, not samba.
My own mountain is called Pusch Ridge but that is such a prosaic name for a huge everest that looks like a gigantic dinosaur.
I am not the only one who sees this mountain that way. A Feng Shui master took one look at Pusch Ridge and proclaimed him to be a dragon protecting our valley. Like China we too have crouching tigers and hidden dragons in our mountains. A dragon protecting your valley, though, is considered very very lucky.
He is never the same from day to day or even hour to hour. At sunrise he wears a halo.
At sunset he turns bright red and then fades to black.
During monsoon he is green; during dry heat, he is brown. In some lights he is purple mountain majesty;
in others he is maroon with a white top of snow.
Sunlight and moonlight can drop into his holes or a cloud can turn parts of him into gray umbrage.
I greet him every day. I love him. I trust him. Like friend-ocean, he is eternal and forever.
If he could speak, he would say like the Navajo people do in their Blessingway ceremonies:
In beauty may I walk.
All day long may I walk.
Through the returning seasons may I walk.
On the trail marked with pollen may I walk.
With grasshoppers about my feet may I walk.
With dew about my feet may I walk.
With beauty may I walk.
With beauty before me, may I walk.
With beauty behind me, may I walk.
With beauty above me, may I walk.
With beauty below me, may I walk.
With beauty all around me, may I walk.
In old age wandering on a trail of beauty, lively, may I walk.
In old age wandering on a trail of beauty, living again, may I walk.
It is finished in beauty.
It is finished in beauty
–Navajo Blessingway Ceremony
Henry David Thoreau once said it is wise to fall in love with your own small and special piece of real estate. He had Walden Pond, but I think he would have loved Pusch Ridge.
